Welcome! This blog offers practical resources for understanding and healing burnout, guilt, betrayal and anxiety.
You'll find expert, easy-to-use tools informed by EMDR, Somatics, Brainspotting, and IFS to heal the root of chronic overwhelm and live with more ease and clarity.
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Online Therapy for Trauma and Grief: A Guide to Your First Session with Carly Pollack
What is your first session with a trauma therapist like? If you’re nervous about beginning therapy, read on to help calm your nerves. I’ll take you through the first trauma therapy session with me, including what to expect and tips to make the session comfortable. Schedule trauma therapy with me to overcome grief, PTSD, anger, and depression.
Beyond Stereotypes: Why We Misunderstand PTSD
PTSD can be confusing for several reasons. When trauma hits, your body's survival instincts can go into overdrive. This is the "fight, flight, or freeze" response, designed to protect you from danger. But sometimes, that system gets stuck on high alert, making you feel unsafe even when you're completely secure. To learn more about how to calm these instincts and begin the journey toward healing, read on.
The Limitations of Talk Therapy on PTSD Recovery
Talk therapy is a common treatment for PTSD, but it's not always the right fit. If you’ve tried talk therapy before with limited success treating your PTSD, you’re not doing it wrong- talk therapy just doesn’t always cut it. If you're struggling with PTSD, you may find that talk therapy is difficult to process a traumatic event, time-consuming, and not effective for everyone.
Overcoming PTSD's Grip on Your Sex Life: A Guide to Reclaiming Intimacy
PTSD can have a deep and frustrating impact on your sex life, but it doesn't have to define it. By acknowledging your feelings, getting to know yourself through exploration, seeking professional support, communicating with your partner, creating a safe space, exploring sensuality, and practicing self-care, you can gradually overcome PTSD's grip on your sex life. Read this blog post to learn more.
Why Am I So Scared of Myself? A Guide to Trauma and Fear of Self
Have you ever wondered why you are so afraid to feel certain emotions? Or, why it feels like a caged animal is inside, controlling and screwing up your life? Trauma often disrupts self-trust and brings an overwhelming sense of powerlessness. When we feel overwhelmed and powerless, we become afraid. It might manifest as aggression, irritability, bad sleep or unexplained aches. Read on to learn the why and how, and what you can do about it.
An Open Letter To The Friends and Family of Men with Trauma, from a Trauma Therapist
Are you searching for how to help a man in your life deal with his PTSD, trauma, bad sleep and irritability? If you know and love a man who is suffering, you know that it feels awful to watch him suffer. You might feel unable to help him, or confused about the best path forward. This letter is for anyone who cares about a man who is suffering. Read on for specific ideas from a licensed trauma therapist who specializes in treating mens PTSD.
Why You Feel Burnt Out: A Guide to Your Window of Tolerance
Have you been feeling extra irritable lately? Has your sleep been disrupted and poor? Are you noticing your relationships are not fulfilling, and you feel unmotivated? Maybe you are stuck “on” and can’t seem to relax? It’s time to assess your window of tolerance and take action to improve it.
8 Steps to Take After a Traumatic Event According to a Trauma Therapist
Have you experienced trauma and you’re not sure what to do? Should you avoid triggers, or should you allow them in small doses in order to process? (Hint *its the second option!) There are so many suggestions on the internet, but what should you really do? Read on for ideas from a licensed trauma therapist. Please note: these tips are not medical advice. Please seek a qualified mental health provider for individualized therapy.
The Courage to Heal: A Man's Guide to Therapy and Support
More men should get therapy. Is it as simple as that? No. Of course not. But there might be misconceptions you hold about therapy, and those misconceptions and barriers are holding you back from a life unburdened by trauma. If you’re a man or you love a man, this blog post breaks down the stigma, shame, and reasons that men are less likely to seek therapy. It also shares practical tips for seeking help for men.
What They Didn’t Teach Us About Grief in School
Let’s face it, they don’t teach us anything about real emotions in school. Maybe because it is complex and sensitive and makes people feel uncomfortable. Maybe be because the adults in our lives had no idea what to say. How did you learn about grief? And, what can you do to deal with your grief?
5 Hidden Signs of Trauma You May Be Carrying (Especially For Women)
Do you have a suspicion that trauma, from childhood or more recently, is holding you back? Are you irritable, frustrated, and unable to relax? Is your sleep disturbed? If so, you might benefit from addressing your trauma through quality therapy. Read on to learn about the hidden signs of trauma and what to do about it.
Beyond the Trauma: How EMDR Therapy Can Help You Heal
Has a memory ever felt like it was stuck on a loop, replaying in your mind again and again? Maybe it's a specific image, a crushing sound, or a wave of emotion that floods you with anxiety and distress, even when you're completely safe. For the successful woman who has navigated betrayal, felt lost after a seismic life shift, or carries the constant weight of overwhelm, this feeling is all too familiar. Read on to learn how to release it with EMDR
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Digital Resources
Purchase and download workbooks, self EMDR and Brainspotting exercises, and other therapist-created resources for less than the cost of therapy.
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For Therapists
For associate therapists in CA, CO, FL, or VA, I offer clinical supervision. Find private practice support in the calm practice™, available for purchase.
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Online Therapy
Effective online grief and trauma therapy via video to address guilt, self-doubt, and build confidence from the comfort of your own space.
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EMDR Therapy
EMDR therapy to heal distress from traumatic memories that disrupts your daily life. During EMDR therapy, overwhelm is transformed into peace.

