Reclaim your power, your story, your life.

Online grief counseling and trauma therapy for adults in Virginia and Colorado. EMDR, Brainspotting, IFS, psychedelic, and somatic therapy for trauma, grief, and self-confidence.

You’re done waiting. You’re ready to make changes that actually last.

You can’t remember the last time you felt confident.

  • You feel irritated in your relationships and don’t know how to speak up, even when you “know” you “should

  • You wonder “how did it get like this?” and worry that your childhood is negatively impacting your adult life

  • You feel suspicious and tense around others, yet when you’re alone all you want is to feel connected and whole

  • You don’t trust yourself to make decisions, even the “small” ones

  • Nothing is really fun anymore, and finding motivation to enjoy life seems impossible.

  • You’ve achieved most of what you want and need, but struggle to really understand yourself


You’re in the right place to feel better.


Hey, I’m Carly. I’m ready to help you.

My clients are like you. They’re logical, hard-working, and don’t want anyone to see how hard they struggle.

Often, they’ve tried other therapies, self-help, medication, meditation, retreats, or just plain ole pushing it all deep down without the real lasting change they know they need.

I’m not a blank-slate therapist. I bring my authentic self into our sessions because this is real, and a good therapist gets it. We’ll dig deep, get uncomfortable, and heal deep trauma and grief. Sometimes, we’ll laugh inappropriately and talk a little ~therapeutic~ shit.

I love my job, and I’m damn good at it. I work best with folks who are ready to dive in and interested in exploring therapy that goes beyond traditional “talk therapy,” such as EMDR therapy, Brainspotting, somatic therapy, IFS therapy, and psychedelic-assisted therapy.

How can I help you?

  • Grief Counseling

    Every day can feel impossible, and moments of joy become confusing. Whether you’re dealing with complicated grief, death grief, anticipatory grief, loss of identity, or a spiritual wound, grief therapy provides a path toward reconnecting with your life.

  • Trauma Therapy

    You’re keeping it together, but so much of life is really hard. You feel like no one gets it— even though you survived, you’re dealing with the sharp pieces every single day. Trauma therapy helps you heal what isn’t working so that you can live fully in the present.

  • Self-Confidence Therapy

    Your self-confidence is shaky at best and nothing seems to improve your self-esteem. Your career, relationships, and identity are suffering. Self-confidence therapy helps you find inspiration and regain a sense of courage in your life.

Why online therapy?

  • Maximum confidentiality and privacy - you won’t spend any unnecessary time in a car, waiting room, or office.

  • Scheduling and attending therapy is convenient- completely on your time.

  • Flexibility to do therapy near you: from your home, during your lunch break, on vacation - if you have internet and a phone or computer, you can do therapy.

  • EMDR, Brainspotting, and IFS therapies are as effective or better online versus in-person therapy.

Therapy Methods

Ready to get started?

First: Schedule a free 15-minute consultation phone call. Ask me all the questions you have and decide if you’d like to work with me.

Next: We’ll work together weekly, every other week, or at a Grief & Trauma Intensive. You’ll gently and effectively process trauma and tend to painful feelings especially related to grief.

Finally: You’ll notice that vulnerability begins to feel powerful, and the changes you’ve been trying to make begin to stick. Your self-confidence will grow, your relationships will improve, and you’ll finally settle into ease and connection.

Douglas County, Colorado

 

Englewood and Castle Rock, Colorado

Routt & Mofatt County, Colorado

 

Steamboat Springs, Colorado

Fairfax County, Virginia

 

McLean, Alexandria, Great Falls, Virginia

Based in Steamboat Springs, CO. Online therapy appointments are available to anyone living in Colorado or Virginia. Intensives are available in-person in Colorado.

You can live a life with confidence.

I’ll help you be sure of it.

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