Online and In-Person EMDR Therapy

Heal Traumatic Memories with EMDR Therapy

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy is an effective therapy for healing from distress for busy adults who want results fast.

Are you overwhelmed or shaken by images, flashbacks, and reminders of your trauma?

✖ You’re a busy adult with a lot on your plate - lingering distress just isn’t serving you.

✖ Your sleep is disturbed and you’re left fatigued, drained and restless.

✖ “Talking about it" feels overwhelming, useless and re-traumatizing.

✖ Unexpected sights, sounds, or even smells trigger intense emotional reactions.

✖ You’re avoiding places, people, conversations or activities that remind you of what happened.

✖ Hyper-vigilance and fear are keeping you stuck in the past.

✖ Physical aches and pains lead to isolation and depression.

Why Virtual EMDR Therapy?

Convenience and Accessibility

Online EMDR therapy offers unparalleled convenience, allowing you to participate in sessions from the comfort and privacy of your own home, eliminating travel time and logistical hurdles. This increases accessibility for individuals throughout Colorado, California, Florida, Virginia, and beyond.

Comfort and Familiarity of Home

For some individuals, engaging in EMDR processing from their own familiar environment can enhance feelings of safety and control, potentially making it easier to access and process difficult emotions.

Learn more about Online EMDR therapy.

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Why In-Person EMDR Therapy?

Enhanced Bilateral Stimulation

In-person sessions allow for a wider range of bilateral stimulation (BLS) options, including tactile stimulation (using buzzers or tapping), which many clients find grounding and effective. We can also precisely control the visual BLS (eye movements) and observe subtle physical cues in real-time to tailor the process more directly.

Dedicated and Contained Space

The therapy office provides a physically separate and dedicated environment specifically for processing. This can minimize distractions and create a stronger sense of containment and safety for emotional work. My beautiful office in Steamboat Springs provides a supportive natural environment for healing.

Learn more about Intensive In-Person EMDR therapy.

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Hi, I’m Carly,

Your Expert EMDR Therapist

I often work with clients seeking to heal from specific memories, while others discover the need for EMDR as we explore their experiences. Regardless of your journey, we can use EMDR at any time.

EMDR therapy begins with building inner resources, empowering you to address upsetting memories both in and out of session. We'll move at your pace - you’re always in control. We gently process memories during the 'desensitization' phase using bilateral stimulation like visual tracking, tapping, or audio.

Personally and professionally, I've seen EMDR bring rapid relief and lasting healing from both grief and trauma. Many clients experience positive shifts within about three sessions, with continued growth throughout therapy.

Whether you prefer in-person EMDR therapy sessions here in Steamboat Springs or the convenience of virtual therapy, EMDR offers a powerful path to well-being.

Is EMDR therapy right for me?

EMDR therapy could be for you if…

✔ You’ve experienced an assault, injury, or sudden loss of a loved one.

✔ Disturbing images of your trauma cause distress and panic.

✔ You’ve tried CBT therapy or talk therapy with no improvement.

✔ You are ready to confront painful memories in a gentle, efficient way.

✔ You can fully access the memory or memories that you’d like to address.

✔ You often intellectualize or logic away your hurt and you’re ready to actually get results.

EMDR might not be for you if…

╳ You can’t yet access emotions or memories (“become activated”).

╳ You are not yet able to self-soothe.

╳ You are in active psychosis or bipolar mania, are under the influence of certain drugs or alcohol, or have uncontrolled dissociation or a plan, intent and means to kill yourself.

╳ You have absolutely no support system outside of therapy.

╳ You want to use EMDR to address your complex PTSD or compounded grief without being involved in more regular therapy.

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faqs

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy

  • EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy is a powerful and evidence-based psychotherapy approach designed to help you heal from the emotional distress and symptoms resulting from traumatic or difficult life experiences.

    It utilizes bilateral stimulation (alternating left-right stimulation of the brain) while you focus on specific memories, allowing your brain to process these experiences in a new and less distressing way.

  • While the precise neurological mechanisms are still being explored, EMDR therapy is thought to facilitate the brain's natural processing of information, similar to what happens during REM (Rapid Eye Movement) sleep.

    The bilateral stimulation (often eye movements, but also tactile or auditory) appears to help "unstick" traumatic memories that may be unprocessed or maladaptively stored. This allows for the emotional charge of the memory to reduce, new insights to emerge, and more adaptive beliefs to develop.

  • EMDR therapy is a powerful and effective treatment for a wide range of challenges, including:

    • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and other trauma-related disorders (single-incident, complex, childhood trauma)

    • Grief and loss (including complicated grief, traumatic grief, and unresolved grief)

    • Anxiety disorders (panic disorder, social anxiety, phobias, generalized anxiety)

    • Depression and mood disorders

    • Disturbing memories and intrusive thoughts

    • Low self-esteem and negative self-beliefs

    • Body image issues

    • Performance anxiety

    • Chronic pain (as an adjunct treatment)

  • Bilateral stimulation is a key component of EMDR therapy that involves alternating stimulation of the left and right sides of your brain.

    This can be done a lot of different ways.

    • Eye Movements: Following the therapist's finger, a video, or a light bar with your eyes.

    • Tactile Stimulation: Holding small, vibrating pulsers (buzzies) in each hand that alternate vibrations.

    • Auditory Stimulation: Listening to alternating tones or sounds through headphones.

    In my practice, I offer all three forms of bilateral stimulation (visual, tactile, and auditory) to tailor the experience to your comfort and processing style. I offer in person EMDR therapy at my Steamboat Springs office, and virtual EMDR therapy to adults anywhere in Colorado, California, Virginia or Florida.

  • EMDR therapy typically follows an 8-phase protocol.

    While the processing phase with BLS is central, the initial stages are crucial for safety and preparation:

    1. History Taking: We'll discuss your history and the specific issues you want to address with EMDR.

    2. Preparation: I'll explain the EMDR process in detail, answer your questions, and teach you coping mechanisms and grounding techniques to manage any potential distress.

    3. Assessment: Together, we'll identify specific target memories, the negative beliefs associated with them, and the positive beliefs you'd like to embrace.

    4. Desensitization (Processing): You'll focus on the target memory while engaging in bilateral stimulation. You'll simply notice any thoughts, feelings, images, or sensations that arise without judgment or trying to control them. We'll do several sets of BLS with brief check-ins.

    5. Installation: Once the distress related to the memory significantly reduces, we'll work on strengthening and "installing" the positive belief you identified.

    6. Body Scan: You'll bring the target memory and positive belief to mind and notice any remaining physical sensations. Further processing may occur if there's still disturbance.

    7. Closure: Each session concludes with ensuring you feel grounded and stable. We'll discuss coping strategies for between sessions if needed.

    8. Re-evaluation: In subsequent sessions, we'll review your progress and identify any new targets for processing.

  • The number of EMDR sessions varies depending on the complexity and chronicity of the issues, the intensity of past trauma, and your individual processing style.

    Some single-incident traumas may see significant improvement in 3 or fewer sessions, while more complex or multiple traumas may require a more extended course of therapy.

    We will collaboratively assess your progress and adjust the treatment plan as needed.

  • While processing difficult memories can bring up uncomfortable emotions, the goal of EMDR therapy is to reduce the intensity of that distress.

    I will work with you at a pace that feels safe and manageable, and we will utilize grounding techniques to help you stay present and regulate your emotions.

    You are always in control and can stop the processing at any time. The aim is to desensitize the memory so it no longer evokes the same level of emotional pain.

  • Yes, I use EMDR therapy as part of my personal healing program.

    EMDR therapy was very helpful for me through particularly challenging times of loss.

    My training and ongoing consultation in EMDR therapy allows me to practice and ensure I am giving you the best EMDR therapy available.

  • Yes, EMDR therapy is recognized as an effective and evidence-based treatment for PTSD and other conditions by numerous national and international organizations, including the American Psychiatric Association, the World Health Organization, the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, and the International Society for Traumatic Stress Studies.

    Extensive research has consistently demonstrated its efficacy, both in-person and online.

  • Following an EMDR processing session, some individuals may experience temporary after-effects such as vivid dreams, increased awareness of the processed material, fatigue, or mild emotional sensitivity.

    These are usually short-lived (lasting a few hours to a day or two) and are often a sign that processing is continuing. Clients often report feeling very tired after EMDR, which makes sense as it is a powerful processing therapy that requires a lot of energy.

    We will discuss potential after-effects and develop strategies for self-care and grounding to support you between sessions.

  • Traditional talk therapy often involves discussing and gaining insight into your experiences.

    While EMDR therapy also includes a therapeutic relationship and discussion, the key difference is the use of bilateral stimulation to directly facilitate the brain's processing of distressing memories.

    This can sometimes lead to more rapid and profound shifts in emotional processing compared to talk therapy alone, particularly for trauma-related issues.

    Additionally, we know that “talk therapy” that relies heavily on logic or challenging beliefs can be really unhelpful. I got trained in EMDR as I began to see folks with trauma and realize the “gold standard” CBT just doesn’t always cut it.

  • Yes, EMDR therapy can be effectively adapted for online sessions using virtual bilateral stimulation (e.g., following a moving dot on your screen or using alternating auditory tones through headphones).

    While in-person sessions in my Steamboat Springs office allow for the added benefit of tactile BLS, online EMDR offers greater convenience and accessibility for clients in Colorado, Florida, California, Virginia, and beyond.

    We will discuss the pros and cons of each format to determine the best fit for you.

  • I use a secure and HIPAA-compliant video conferencing platform through Psychology Today.

    For online EMDR therapy, I use a variety of videos that allow me to control the visual BLS.

    The platform uses end-to-end encryption to ensure that your sessions are confidential and protected.

  • My fees for online EMDR therapy are:

    $300 - Intake session

    $200 - Weekly or biweekly session

    You can pay for counseling using Zelle, venmo, cash/check, credit/debit card, or HSA/FSA.

  • In-person EMDR therapy in my office offers several advantages:

    Tactile Bilateral Stimulation: The use of physical buzzies held in your hands can provide a more grounding and embodied experience, which some clients find particularly helpful for processing.

    Precise Visual BLS: I can precisely control the pace, rhythm, and range of eye movements to optimize your brain's processing.

    Real-Time Observation and Support: Being physically present allows me to observe your subtle physical and emotional responses in real-time, enabling immediate adjustments and tailored support throughout the session.

    Dedicated Therapeutic Space: My comfortable and private office provides a focused and contained environment specifically designed for therapeutic work, minimizing distractions.

  • If you're interested in learning more or scheduling EMDR therapy sessions (either online or in person in Steamboat Springs), you can click here to schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation.

    I'm happy to answer any further questions you may have and help you take the first step towards healing.

    I offer these free initial consultations to discuss your needs and determine if EMDR therapy is a good fit for you.

    I’ll answer your questions about my approach and experience, and we will plan our first session from there.

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