Inside My Mind: A Therapist’s Blog
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The Body's Silent Language: Learn to Listen to Your Nervous System
You've always trusted your mind to get you through anything. But what if your body has been holding onto a story you've been too busy to hear? This post explores how the disconnect between your mind and body is a brilliant survival strategy from trauma and offers a compassionate guide to learn to listen. It's time to trade exhaustion for genuine peace.
Why Perfectionism Is a Trauma Response and How to Heal It
You've built your success on being in control. But what if your perfectionism is really a trauma response, a shield against past hurts and criticism? This post explores the exhausting reality of living with this survival strategy and offers a gentle path to healing. It's time to trade the relentless pressure for a life of genuine self-trust and peace - read on to learn how.
The Endless "Yes": When Chronic Overwhelm is Your Body's Story of Survival
Do you find yourself saying "yes" without thinking, even when you crave peace? This familiar cycle of putting others first, juggling tasks, and collapsing in exhaustion is often tied to a pervasive feeling of overwhelm. If this sounds like you, know you're not alone. This constant urge to please and the heavy feeling of overwhelm are often deeply connected parts of how your body learned to cope with past stress and trauma.
Reclaiming Your Self: After Romantic Narcissistic Abuse
Romantic narcissistic abuse doesn’t start with overt cruelty. Instead, it’s a devastating cycle that slowly pulls you in and holds you captive, often disguised as passionate love. Understanding this is a vital first step in your recovery, helping you see that their behavior isn't about your worth or actions, but their manipulation. This post guides you through the impacts on your inner world and your courageous path to reclaiming yourself.
When Home Hurts: Finding Healing from Childhood Abuse
Do you carry a quiet anxiety, feeling like you're always doing too much or are never quite enough? These feelings often stem from upsetting childhood experiences, especially if safety was compromised by those meant to protect you. Your ACE score offers a compassionate lens to understand these past hurts. Discover how specialized therapy can guide you toward healing these old wounds and reclaiming your authentic self.
Fuck "Forgive and Forget": Healing After Infidelity with EMDR Therapy
Your spouse had an affair, and now you're here. The shock of betrayal can shatter your world and peace. If you're struggling to move past the pain, know that true healing is possible. Discover how EMDR therapy can help you process the trauma and reclaim your life. Read on to learn about recovering from betrayal trauma.
Supporting a Loved One Through Pregnancy Loss: A Guide for Friends and Family
Watching someone you care about navigate pregnancy loss is heartbreaking. Words often feel inadequate, and actions clumsy. This guide helps friends and family understand complex grief and trauma, showing you how to truly be present. Because while you can't fix their loss, your support makes a real difference. Read on to learn how to help.
A Step-by-Step Guide to Healing from Betrayal Trauma with EMDR
If you recently discovered an affair and you’re feeling lost, angry, and confused - this one’s for you. The ground beneath you has shattered, and you’ve been transported into a world you never wanted to be in. The discovery of infidelity is brutal, and that sense of impending doom, the foggy memory, and the intense emotional swings are real. Read on for a step-by-step guide to using EMDR for betrayal trauma.
The Hidden Cost: Why "Pushing Through" Leads to Burnout, Not Peace
You're constantly pushing through, feeling drained and resentful, but can't seem to stop. This relentless hustle carries a hidden cost, impacting your body and peace of mind. What if the key to your well-being lies in understanding your nervous system and inner self? Discover why your old strategies aren't working and find a new path to genuine freedom.
Dating with Your Nervous System: A Guide for the Successful Woman
You’re a successful woman, but dating feels heavy. Beneath the surface, the guilt and people-pleasing that helped you cope with past stress are silently draining you. This post is for you. It's a guide to understanding how your nervous system influences your dating life and how to heal those deep-seated patterns to find a truly connected partnership.
So Your Over-Responsible Heart Adopted a Reactive Dog? A Nervous System Guide
You poured your heart into helping your reactive dog, but when progress feels out of reach, the drain and guilt are immense. What if the key to their calm lies in understanding your own nervous system? This isn't just about dog training. Read on to learn to walk a surprising path to peace for both you and your beloved companion.
Why Betrayal Trauma Hits Harder When You're Used to Being in Control
If you manage complexities and lead with confidence, being betrayed is a huge disruption to your sense of order. This particular kind of trauma hits especially hard, impacting your ability to function and leaving you questioning everything. Learn why betrayal trauma sabotages your usual coping methods and how deeply it affects your brain and body. Discover powerful strategies, including EMDR, to reclaim your peace and natural strength.