Welcome! This blog offers practical resources for understanding and healing burnout, guilt, betrayal and anxiety.
You'll find expert, easy-to-use tools informed by EMDR, Somatics, Brainspotting, and IFS to heal the root of chronic overwhelm and live with more ease and clarity.
Use the search bar below to find resources on specific topics:
Why We Can’t “Just Have Fun!” After an Affair (& How to Get Fun Back)
When an affair shatters your world, fun and curiosity vanish, replaced by betrayal and a brain in survival mode. You might feel lost, frozen, and wonder if joy is possible ever again. Society might expect you to "just move on," but that dismisses the deep relational trauma that truly lingers. Discover how to reclaim your openness, curiosity, and even fun after betrayal. Read to learn about different types of therapy and how they heal betrayal trauma.
Let’s Work Together
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Therapy Tools & Workbooks
Self-guided EMDR tools, Brainspotting exercises, and therapist-created workbooks designed to support healing on your own schedule.
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For Therapists
For associate therapists in CA, CO, FL, or VA. Thoughtful supervision and private practice support grounded in The Calm Practice™ framework.
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Online Therapy
Virtual EMDR and trauma therapy to help you process grief, guilt, and self-doubt from the safety of your own space.
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EMDR Therapy
Structured EMDR therapy to process traumatic memories and reduce overwhelm so you can feel steadier in daily life.

