Welcome! This blog offers practical resources for understanding and healing burnout, guilt, betrayal and anxiety.

You'll find expert, easy-to-use tools informed by EMDR, Somatics, Brainspotting, and IFS to heal the root of chronic overwhelm and live with more ease and clarity.

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How Brainspotting Expands Your Capacity for More Love, Joy, & Pleasure
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How Brainspotting Expands Your Capacity for More Love, Joy, & Pleasure

You’ve done the work, but it still feels like theres a limit on the joy and connection you can let in. That limit could be an unconscious survival pattern that keeps your nervous system safely closed off from love and expansion. Learn how Brainspotting helps you move beyond coping by actively wiring your brain to confidently receive pleasure, joy, and awe. Read more if you’re ready for a healthy relationship.

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Brainspotting Therapy after Trauma: Reclaim Your Confidence
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Brainspotting Therapy after Trauma: Reclaim Your Confidence

When trauma, especially betrayal trauma like infidelity, leaves its mark, self-doubt bubbles and grows. But what if there's a way to process those deep wounds and reclaim your inner strength? This post explores Brainspotting Therapy, a neurobiological approach to healing that helps you truly step back into your inherent confidence. If you’re curious about rebuilding your confidence after trauma, read on to learn more.

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