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It's Not a Miscarriage: The Crushing Grief of Pregnancy Loss

The term "miscarriage" can feel cruel, implying fault where there is none in the heartbreak of pregnancy loss. This is about the crushing grief of losing a longed-for future that deserves to be acknowledged with compassionate language. Society often falls short in supporting this profound pain, but EMDR therapy and gentle self-care steps can be healing. Let’s stop blaming and start understanding.

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Understanding Loss and Healing: The Many Faces of Grief

Maybe you've heard that grief follows certain steps, but your own experience feels different. You’re distant, angry and hurting, but are you “grieving”? Let’s learn about the multifaceted nature of grief. We'll explore the many ways loss can impact us, extending beyond traditional bereavement to include the grief of lost connections, shattered trust, and anticipated loss. This blog post explores grief, loss, and healing for busy adults.

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Losing Trust and Finding Solace After Betrayal Trauma

Infidelity, betrayal, affairs, cheating. All shatter trust, security, and our sense of self, leaving a void that demands to be grieved. We lose not only the person we thought we knew, but also the life and future we envisioned. Healing from this betrayal trauma grief requires courage, self-compassion, and understanding. This post explores how to navigate this grief, offering coping strategies and insights into how EMDR therapy can help reclaim your path to healing.

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How to Help a Grieving Loved One and What NOT to Say: Quick Read

Grief is a powerful experience of intense sadness, anger, hurt, and loss. This quick read, written by a grief therapist, equips you with the knowledge and empathy to support your loved ones. Learn powerful dos and don'ts for communication, practical ways to show you care, and how to help grieving children navigate their emotions.

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Grief & Vulnerability: Quick Read

Grief can leave you feeling isolated and alone, but vulnerability is the key to unlocking healing. By sharing your story and expressing your emotions, you connect with loved ones who can offer support and understanding. Talking and feeling openly allows you to process complex feelings like anger, sadness, and guilt, and begin to find meaning in your loss. Vulnerability may feel scary at first, but it's a powerful tool that can empower you to move forward on your grief journey. Curious about how? Read on.

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Lost? Disrupted? Struggling?: Understanding Grief and How to Get Help

Grief hits hard. It disrupts the brain's emotional control center, scrambling the circuits for happiness and connection. This throws a wave of raw emotions – sadness, anger, emptiness – at you after any loss. Even the dread you feel when you know a loss is coming, like caring for a terminally ill loved one, can trigger this emotional storm. That's anticipatory grief. And for some, the intense emotions linger, making daily life a struggle – that's complicated grief. This post dives into the science behind grief, offering tools and resources to help you navigate this difficult journey.

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