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Hi, I’m Carly

I believe in using expert guidance and authentic connection to help you thrive.

WELCOME - I’m so glad you’re here.

My Approach

  • I’m direct, truthful, and unconditionally supportive with you.

    I won’t tell you “aww it’s gonna be OK” or “forgive them!” and you’ll probably see my face making some expressive expressions. I’m never going to answer your question with a question like you see in the movies.

    I like to use humor and human connection to support your therapeutic goals.

  • I know that I don’t have all the answers and I don’t mind being wrong. I try hard not to say “you should…” because it irks me when people say that to me.

    Instead, I come to our sessions genuinely curious about your story, your parts, and your way of seeing the world.

    I believe the wisdom, healing, power, whatever you want to call, the “thing” that you “need” is already within you. It’s there, and together we can explore, build trust, and connect with it.

  • We all have biases, and to deny them is harmful. It matters if your therapist is anti-LGBTQ+ or doesn't believe in compassionate immigration policies.

    Clinical training and experience matter a lot, but if you also care about others, you have the right to ask your therapist about these beliefs.

    We can't be non-political right now.

  • No matter what you're going through or feeling, no matter how intense or confusing.

    Suicidal thoughts are welcome here, so are the other “taboos” like sex, fantasy, and money.

    Your whole self is appreciated – the good, the bad, and the ugly.

    There's no judgment, just a gentle place to explore and build trust with each part of you.

  • I'm not about dry, logic-based theories. I want to give you practical tools and strategies that you can start using right away.

    And if a slightly unusual analogy or out-there reference comes to my brain, I might just say it.

    Everything I bring into therapy is based on what I know to be helpful.

    I use EMDR, IFS, somatic and psychedelic therapy with clients because I also use them in my own healing journey.

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Are you at odds with your emotions, disconnected in your relationships, and overwhelmed by life?

Maybe you long to trust your intuition, make confident decisions, and finally feel that sense of peace that you know is out there. You want to move from insecure to secure within yourself - that goal is within your reach.

You deserve self-acceptance.

I can help you get there using EMDR therapy, convenient online therapy, and intensive in-person therapy.

My approach goes beyond traditional CBT or talk therapy. Therapy with me feels supportive, effective, and sometimes even wonderful.

Specializing in…

Bereavement

Navigating the deep sadness and complex emotions that arise from the loss of a loved one.

Traumatic Loss

Healing from losses involving violent circumstances, such as accidents, suicide, or homicide.

Complicated Grief

Providing support for prolonged grief from losing someone to addiction or cognitive decline.

Betrayal Trauma

Rebuilding trust and healing from the pain of betrayal, whether from infidelity or broken trust.

Neurodivergent Grief

Grief support for the unique experiences of autistic, neurodivergent individuals.

Pet Loss

Support for the often underestimated grief of losing an animal or loving a reactive dog.

Child Loss

Support for those experiencing the devastating loss of a pregnancy, infant or child death.

Family Abandonment

Family estrangement, rejection, or identity-based conflicts, and finding a sense of belonging.

Anticipatory Grief

Supporting you through facing an impending loss or life-altering circumstance.

Existential Grief

Distress arising from the hostility and cruelty of the current political and social landscape.

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I’ve been a therapist for years,

but I’m still too competitive and annoyed when I lose. When I was 13 I decided to stop eating meat, and I’m currently exploring a sober-curious life. I love to bake extravagant treats and I love having friends who enjoy what I bake.

I constantly forget where I parked my car or put my phone but I’ll remember the name of your great aunt from your 4th bday party who got upset when you didn’t kiss her cheek.

I know the chaos, sadness, and pain of trauma and grief because I’ve been there. In the loss, the hurt, and the beauty of learning to trust.

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About Carly

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  • I believe therapy should be authentic, powerful, and effective.

    My approach to therapy is collaborative, ultra personalized, and intentional. I don't sit there and shake my head and say "mhm." I believe you have everything you need to "heal," and I'm there to help you access it.

    Sessions are designed to be focused and planned to address your unique goals, yet flexible to meet you where you’re at.

    While I can’t give you a set number of sessions it will take, you will begin to feel progress soon after we begin.

    I hope that my website can reveal a bit about my personality, and the free consultation call can give you the rest of what you need to make the decision to start therapy with me.

  • I use trauma-informed, somatic based therapies that are modern, evidence-based, and engaging.

    I’m not huge on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, but everyone has their preferences ;)

    I use a dynamic, integrative approach - meaning, we’ll use a blend of EMDR, Brainspotting, IFS, Somatic, and Psychedelic therapies when appropriate.

    I believe this allows my clients to find the most success in therapy.

  • You might see different letters at the end of therapist names, for example, I am Carly Pollack, LCSW.

    The “LCSW” just means I am a licensed clinical social worker.

    Other therapist acronyms could be LCP (Licensed Professional Counselor), LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist), LP (Licensed Psychologist) or PsyD (Doctor of Psychology). Licensed psychiatrists, DO’s and MD’s can also provide therapy.

    Licensing is the process of being educated and then working underneath a more experienced, licensed professional who guides and supervises your work. You might see an “A” in someones letters like Carly Pollack ACSW, which means “associate” and that person is earning their hours.

    I had to do this for 3,000 hours over at least 2 years - it actually took me about 5 :) Then, you sit for a national practical exam and a local jurisprudence exam. You have to pass, pay the fees, and submit an application to the state for your license.

    As an LCSW, on a yearly basis I have to reapply for my license and complete required continuing education units to ensure I keep competent in the profession.

  • Insurance can interrupt the therapeutic process. They delay payments, take back money, and can limit the amount of sessions you can have.

    If you have insurance, I can give you a superbill and you can upload it to Thrizer for possible reimbursement.

    https://www.thrizer.com/

  • I love being a therapist because it allows me to be a fellow traveler. I've learned so much from my clients and colleagues and will continue to expand into the best version of therapist and person I can be.

    I try to stay in tune with myself, my clients, and my world, which helps me be present with you while you address and move through deeply painful material.

    Working with folks who are going through loss is an honor. When I am sitting with you in your grief, confusion, hurt, anger and disgust, I feel peace and clarity.

  • I am anti-racist, anti-homophobic, anti-transphobic, anti-xenophobic, pro Free Palestine and have a hard time understanding how we elected trump.

    I feel more and more spiritual as I grow with and into myself. Although I am obviously plugged into a capitalistic system, I think capitalism drives a lot of the suffering we experience as a people.

    Please, feel free to ask me about any of this and if there are parts that I missed, bring them up in our consultation call.

  • Everyone should ask their therapist this!

    I am involved in my own individual therapy and regularly practice IFS and somatic mediations.

    I get cozy with my shadow parts and take part in individual and group psychedelic therapy experiences.

    I play soccer, spend time in nature and water, cook healthy plant-based meals, bake vegan treats, prioritize sun and water intake, learn Spanish, volunteer at the humane society, and play with my dog on a regular basis.

    I have a loving partner who supports me unconditionally 💖

  • It's cheesy but it's true- I don't think I really "chose" it at first.

    My baby brother died of bone cancer when I was 20 and he was 17. He had his leg amputated as part of treatment, was in remission, and it came back, it metastasized. The entire 3 years were horrible, and my family and I had no idea how to grieve. We sort of stuffed it down. Shocker - it came back up.

    10 years after my brother died, my dad died by suicide after a long struggle with depression and alcoholism. I was 30.

    These losses shaped me personally and professionally, and I am honored to work with folks navigating similar traumas and losses.

    Even if you don’t share the experience of losing family to death, loss shows up many times in our lives especially in transition.

  • Outside of work, I love jumping into ice-cold alpine lakes in Colorado, aprendiendo español, volunteering with and fostering dogs at the humane socety,  playing competitive adult soccer, cooking elaborate dinners for my friends, and watching terrible but hilarious comedy TV like It’s Always Sunny, The Office, Reno 911, and Curb Your Enthusiasm.

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Professional Education

And Training

  • BA in Anthropology, Michigan State University, 2015

    MSW (Master of Social Work), University of Michigan, 2017

  • Virginia LCSW #0904015183

    Colorado CSW.09929105

    California LCSW #113909

    Florida TPSW4484

    Fully licensed since 2021, pre licensed from 2017-2021

  • 2023 - IPI Psychedelic Assisted Therapist Certification

    2022 - BSP Phase 1

    2021 - EMDR Certified

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I am anti-racist, anti-homophobic, anti-transphobic, anti-xenophobic, pro Free Palestine, and care about using my privilege for good.

Before opening my business, I worked in programs for refugees, unhoused folks, veterans, first responders, and survivors of rape.

I have an Etsy store to offer theraputic-quality resources for way less than the cost of therapy.

Current investments:

The Boycott, Divestment, Sanctions (BDS) Movement

The Refugee Development Center

Routt County Humane Society